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Tuesday, September 12, 2006

The Notorious Work Ethic

Teamster Daughters learned early on that to succeed in life you gotta work hard for the money.

Never one to be lazy himself, Teamster Daddy had little patience for those who were healthy and able but had no drive or determination. His motto was simple: you had to to earn your way in life. The only thing that comes for free is the air you breathe. And even that had a price on it.

Maybe his strong work ethic stemmed from the fact that T-Daddy was left fatherless at a young age. His own father died much too young and left a wife and four young children behind. T-Daddy had to grow up real fast, so he was well prepared. Grandaddy Bub as his father was called was a hardworking man himself. He taught T-Daddy the things that made him a Teamster success. Any man, woman or child who was healthy and able, should work for what they received and in return, they would reap the rewards ten-fold.

Maybe Grandaddy B was the original T, even though he was never initiated into the IBT. He knew the meaning of hard work. He believed that to help your fellow man was a paramount deed and that it was a personal responsibility to help those in need. This lesson came from a man who'd lost a leg early in life to illness. His was quite a powerful example for young T-Daddy to follow.

Teamster Daddy made it a father's mission to teach his daughters to push and ride a mower (not just for fun, but to mow the lawn) to learn the difference between a hammer and screwdriver (in order to use them) and to change the automobile oil or a flat tire. Yuk. Even though I absolutely hate getting my hands that dirty, I'll try my best If I find myself there. He also showed us how to use a rake and a shovel, how to paint a dog house, how elbow grease was almost as good as WD-40.

There would be no lounging in luxury if you wanted luxury goods. He despised inertia and applauded motion. He told his T-daughters repeatedly, "You can do anything a boy can do and do it better if you try hard." The key word here was hard. Hard work was expected and rewarded. And the allowance reflected.

Now as I look back on the things T-Daddy taught me, I do what other's also do that they say they'll never do. Compare. But looking at the youth of the Nation up close and personal like I do everyday teaching at a major University, I am constantly frustrated by their sense of entitlement, their so obvious inertia. Their bodies are at continual rest and like to remain in bed until late afternoon. Never in Teamster House would this be tolerated. So if not in my teenage bedroom, then NOT in my classroom.

Many young men and women expect others to do for them what they could do but do not want to do for themselves. I'm not talking scholarship or grants here (those are rewards and rewards are earned). I'm talking about the breaks they want for bad behavior. The obvious gimme gimme gimme plea for the answer, the exam, and for the grade sounds like a bad cd skipping. This brattiness and priviledge for nothing notable behavior is unparalled to the behavior I learned at T-University.

The lazy responses in class, the pitiful excuses for absences, and most recently, the sarcastic, immature e-mail (because some aren't brave enough to whine in person) makes me want to give them an F for Forget the Promotion. One student sent an e-mail that read, " I can't believe I had to walk all the way to class dressed up for a presentation when it was so hot today." Teamster Daughter wanted to file a grievance for having to read such nonsense! If they would let faculty control the thermostat in the classroom, you better believe I'd turn up the heat. That's what T-Daddy would do. I bet your hard earned dollar he would.

So now it's up to Teamster Daughter to set a good T-example and show those 'lazy punks' as T-Dad would call them, that it's time to quit making excuses and stop slacking long enough to see and hear what success looks like. They'll be no lazy bones Jones' in my classroom. If they want to see an A - they'll have to earn it the hard way, by hard work and effort. What was good enough for T-Daughter is much better for them than where they are now.

And even though I didn't always want to mow the yard, dry the dishes, do my homework or study for a test...look who's at the head of the class...

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

A Horse is a Horse is a Horse of Course

I never knew exactly what the official Teamster logo of two horses heads and a wagon wheel meant and still don't know today, but I think I have a pretty good guess given the symbology of those vivid images. But for Teamster Daddy's sake, I think I'll make up my own version of the brand identity and treat it like it's my personal coat of arms.

So let's talk about horses. Those fine equestrian beauties have always represented strength and independence, stubbornness and loyalty to me, among other things. Four good attributes that T-Daddy and T-Daughter have in common with our four legged friends.

And there's the term 'horse-sense' to think about. And come to think about it, pun intended, Teamster Daddy and T-Daughter had more than their share of keen intuition. They knew a problem when it was far out in the pasture in front or sneaking up from behind. And they were always ready to charge when the time was right and knew when to stay at the bank and wait it out when the creek was too deep to cross.

One of their most favorite things in the world was just plain ole' horsin' around. T-Daddy loved to play innocent practical jokes and T-daughter still does to this day. Now his type of horseplay was a bit different from hers. He was 6'2'' and would try to ride a tiny shetland pony while she liked to surprise family and friends when they least expected it.

T-Daddy was always up for a game of horseshoes and to this day, I can still see him pitch a ringer at Aunt V's farm where we kept our barnful of horses. (ThunderBolt Lightning Cloud and Topper, just to name a few. There were also ponies named Peanuts and Popcorn that T-Daddy brought home in the middle of a dark Teamster night He insisted that we name them right then and there and afterwards the T-girls could go for a ride.

But one of the most significant rides of my life came when Teamster Daddy placed me in a Western Saddle for the very first time at the ripe age of 5. He loved horses so much and so did I, until I actually got on one. Well, let me back track for a moment. T- Daddy made sure I loved horses by lifting me up and placing me in that saddle before I learned how to ride my bicycle.

The moment of my first horseback ride would become one of the biggest lessons and longest rides of my life. Because it taught me many things about strength, courage but most of all--perserverence. When T-Daddy put me on top of Clover's back, he was a big, white horse and much too tall and too many hands for a wee T-daughter.
But Teamster Daddy showed me how to handle him and hold the reins and the horn of the saddle.

In an instant, Teamster Daddy popped Clover on the rump with his big T-Daddy hands and I heard his voice calling out from behind. These few words I still hear to this day: "Now, Don't Be Afraid T-girl...Don't be afraid. Because you can do it! You can Ride!"

I started crying, sobbing and screaming and Clover threw me off his back high into the Teamster sky.

Then came the big moment when I thought T-Daddy would pick me up and cradle me in those huge Teamster arms and make it all better. No more horses, no more fear, no more riding. But instead, to my surprise, he picked me back up and put me right back in the saddle again. You guessed it: TO RIDE.

His big Teamster voice told me in no uncertain terms: "YOUNG LADY! GET BACK ON THAT HORSE AND RIDE".

So I did, and I cried again, but this time Clover didn't throw me. And the next thing I knew, I was having fun, flying up and down. Clover was running fast and his tail was swishing back and forth and I could RIDE! I was T-Daddy's Girl! Never was a horse-lovin' T-Daddy prouder than at that moment. Teamster Daughter could ride!

Several years later I wrote T-Daddy a song.It's my song about life. Yes, L-I-F-E. Everybody's got one...mine is called RIDE. I'll give you one chance to guess what it's about. Now when I think there's something I can't do, I just think of Teamster Daddy and ask what he might do.

How's that for Horsepower?